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More Photos of Soyopa

Us with the Chief of Police of Soyopa (standing next to Milton) and another officer next to me.

Us with the Chief of Police of Soyopa (standing next to Milton) and another officer next to me.

Getting ready to cross the cattle guard leaving our campsite in Soyopa

Getting ready to cross the cattle guard leaving our campsite in Soyopa

Crossing it, can't really see it too well here but the distance between the metal is wider than my tires.

Crossing it, can’t really see it too well here but the distance between the metal is wider than my tires.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dennis and his new friends!

Dennis and his new friends!

Dennis with another friend he made.

Dennis with another friend he made.

Us and Juan Pedro at their community dinner.

Us and Juan Pedro at their community dinner.

Us with the Mayor of Soyopa, Ing. Manuel Garcia Verdugo (on the left) and Juan Pedro Salazar (next to Milton)

Us with the Mayor of Soyopa, Ing. Manuel Garcia Verdugo (on the left) and Juan Pedro Salazar (next to Milton)

Soyopa, Sonora at the community dinner.

Soya, Sonora at the community dinner.

Dennis and another friend.

Dennis and another friend.

And another one, he just makes friends wherever he goes.

And another one, he just makes friends wherever he goes.

The Journey Continues……

We spent the night in Santiago, Ixcuintla, Nayarit after a long day of riding. Sometimes the most expensive thing we do is actually travel.   Had to fill up the bikes three times yesterday and for the last two days we have been riding on a toll road, less traffic and more scenic, but, unfortunately, they don’t just have one toll, they have many, and they can range anywhere from 10 pesos per bike to the most expensive at 102 pesos per bike.  I have started budgeting our money so that Milton and I both have 500 pesos a day (about $60 USD) to spend. Many times we stay well within that budget and some days we have only spent $47 USD  but yesterday with tolls and fuel, we went above that. Not sure how much yet but I have a notebook were I log all of our purchases so I can keep a running total.

Our language skills are still limited with Milton being the most proficient.  When we lead, that is our day to attempt to communicate with people for directions and other things but Dennis and I are so limited that Milton usually takes over for us.  Dennis is funny, he just attempts to make up his own Spanish words as he goes along.  We have found a place in Quetzaltenango, Guatemala where we can take Spanish language classes for about 25 USD per day and I have been in communication with the school attempting to figure out approximately when we will be there.  At this point though we are probably at least a month out as there is still a lot to still see in Mexico.

Our next designation is Sayulita.  It is a small village about 25 miles north of downtown Puerto Vallarta in the state of Nayarit, Mexico, with  a population of approximately 4,000.

Here are some photos from our last couple of days:

Fishing boat in village south west of Angostura, Sinaloa

Fishing boat in village south west of Angostura, Sinaloa

Local Fishermen drying their shrimp.

Local Fishermen drying their shrimp.

Son of one of the people who made us a delicious lunch. Had pollo with tortillas.

Son of one of the people who made us a delicious lunch. Had pollo with tortillas.

Roadside somewhere, asking directions from local police. I had us going in a circle for about hour and a half.

Roadside somewhere, asking directions from local policia. I had us going in a circle for about hour and a half.

Playa Ceuta, the water was warm.

Playa Ceuta, the water was warm.

Caretaker at Playa Viva Turtle Sanctuary

Caretaker at Playa Viva Turtle Sanctuary.

Locals at the fruit stand in La Cruz where we purchased breakfast.

Locals at the fruit stand in La Cruz where we purchased breakfast.

 

Holy Sh*t, what did I sign up for?

So for those of you who have Facebook (FB), you’ve probably already read Milton’s last FB post. Here is my last couple days experiences.  February 2 was my day to lead, (we have been alternating between the three of us of who leads, how we get to whatever destination we choose, and when we stop to eat).  So on February 2, we all made the decision we wanted to head to the coast for some warmer weather We started in San Juanito and wanted to head towards Los Mochi, which is in northern Sinaloa, Mexico.  When we headed out, we were headed in the direction of Urique.  The ride was amazing through the Copper Canyon area, the cliffs overlooking the canyon allowed us to feel like we were on top of the world and the rock formations were so beautiful.  Very little cars on the road with good pavement for a lot of the way until there wasn’t good pavement anymore.  Eventually, without much warning, the pavement ended (we are finding that this is pretty common here in Mexico).  We continued on unpaved road towards what I thought was Urique but we got turned around somehow. And in my defense, it is easy to do when you come upon a small village that isn’t on the map and it’s hard to know which dirt road to follow once we enter.  At one little village (don’t know the name of it) we stopped for a snack and followed the road out that appeared to be the main one leading out of town.  We usually ask directions before we leave, but with the language barrier it’s often difficult to get answers.  Milton is our best interpreter but even his Spanish is limited and the locals talk to fast that he can often only go by pointing to map and asking aqui ? (here?) and then again pointing to map and saying  there (ahi).  He did ask a few local teenagers and although they enjoyed joking with Milton with his limited Spanish we obviously didn’t get very accurate directions before we left because we ended up in Temoris which was west of our destination.

The road from the little village was again all rocky dirt but it was a relatively easy go for us but slow.  After about an hour of riding up this mountain with lots of switch backs, we came across a construction site where they were installing a pipeline pretty much straight up a mountain side.  This was an amazing site to see so we stopped for a moment to watch and then watched at a slow roll as we went down this hill.  At the bottom on the hill, we had to make a sharp right in an area with some loose dirt. Milton went through, of course, with no problem but as I went through, I think I had my feet out to give me a feeling of control (huge mistake) and I slipped in the dirt and went down with something hard crushing my left foot, (think it was my pannier).

Area where I crashed and hurt my foot.

Area where I crashed and hurt my foot.

Construction workers ran to help me get the bike off my foot, helped me up, and I hobbled over to sit down, removed my boot and didn’t note any visible injury but when I palpated my foot, I had pain along the top of my left foot.  Another worker came over, (he appeared to be the foreman) and said something about 5 minutes.  Dennis thought he meant we had to be out of there in 5 minutes so I put my boot back on as Milton came up, he helped me up and we told him we had to leave.  He was not happy with that but I assured him I could move my foot and would be okay to leave.  Come to find out that the foreman was trying to tell us that the ambulance would be there in 5 minutes.

Being checked out by the medics.

Being checked out by the medics.

 

After getting checked out, the medic put some type of topical anesthetic on my foot and a light wrap on it so I could still get my boot on and off we rode.  Shifting was hard but luckily I did not need to shift much due to the terrain but I did discover that I could shift with the heel of my boot.  By the time we got to Temoris, it was dusk and we were anxious to find lodging for the night as we didn’t want to camp with my foot being hurt. I had ice, elevation, and ibuprofen on my mind.  We found a small simple hotel with a nice room but they wanted to charge more than Dennis wanted to pay for his portion (he said it was the attitude of the innkeeper) so we left and ended up having to camp that night not far out of town as there were no other hotel in the little town.  We did find a beautiful site and the sunset was amazing but I would have rather iced my foot rather than only elevate for only 11.00 USD more.  We did get to sleep under the stars and besides the pain, it was one of the more restful nights that I have had while sleeping outside.

The next morning, I noted my foot was too swollen to get into my boot so I had a boot on my right foot and a tennis shoe on my left foot.  We continued along what we thought was the right direction and after about 20-30 minutes of riding came upon a little town, which we discovered was Guazapares, where we got to eat a delicious breakfast and saw first hand where the meat that I was eating that morning came from.

Morning Menudo and tacos, I look exhausted.

Morning Menudo and tacos, I look exhausted.

And hungry!

And hungry!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The first thing I noticed was a young woman sweeping up the dirt courtyard, then I watched this cowboy walk by with an ax and some knives and then the cow was led out from behind the house.

Cow being brought out to be slaughtered.

Cow being brought out to be slaughtered.

It all clicked together then.  It was really hard for me to watch the cow be tied up.  First they tied up her front legs, then her rear legs, then pulled her to the ground where the rope around her neck was brought over her back and looped around her tail and then her neck was stretched back and she was tied tight  They spun her around by her tail to get her in the right position and when the pails were brought out, I knew the knife was close to coming out.  I did not see the actual knife being thrust into the cow’s throat but I finally decided that if I was making a conscious decision to eat meat then I needed to be willing to watch the process and stand in honor of this living being who was sacrificed for my food. After the cow was dead they propped her on her back with her legs in the air with pieces of wood placed on either side to keep her in that position.  We left before the butchering was started.

Family of where we had breakfast of menudo and tacos.

Family of where we had breakfast of menudo and tacos.

During this time, we discovered that we had been heading north and needed to go back past where we had camped for the night.  Milton had always said that he had intended for us to get intentionally lost, don’t know about the intentional part, but we definitely were lost.  We headed back and took the correct turnoff which put us going south.  Today was Milton’s day to lead and again the mountain roads were rocky dirt but he did stop to ask if we wanted to go over the mountain or skirt around it.  My vote was skirt around it as I only had thoughts of resting my foot somewhere as close to a beach as I could get.  Looking at the map, he thought he saw a way to skirt around it.  Not true, there was no way to skirt around it and yesterday’s day of riding was the hardest thing I have ever done.

We finally came to the town of Chinipas, where we were still under the impression we could skirt around the mountain, so we stopped to ask a local who seemed to tell us that we could follow the river to reach our destination.  Hooray, I knew that the river couldn’t go uphill (that gravity thing would prevent that) so I felt relief that there would be no steep hills for me to climb today.  We got lost a few more times, (headed uphill of course), asked for directions again, Milton was chased by a horse (it was beautiful), we rode through deep water crossings and I did not fall thanks to Milton telling me to stay on the throttle (we did get all wet and muddy tho). Before we knew it, we were going up again and after a particular area with deep ruts in the road, we stopped and told Milton we thought we had to be going the wrong way.  He did not agree with us but talked us into going a little further to see what was around the next few bends.  More uphill, that was what was around the next few bends, but by then, we didn’t want to ride down what we had just came up so we continued on, me with great reluctance and a lot of muttering under my breath.

The roads were so steep with switchbacks and they kept saying we were almost at the top but every time we’d get around a bend there would be another steep hill where I could see another switchback.

Up, up, and up!!

Up, up, and up!!

Wish I could say that I rode it with no problem but being able to only apply pressure to my right foot made it really challenging for me.  I fell so many times, I lost count.

Another crash! Milton attempting to talk me through what I could have done different.

Another crash! Milton attempting to talk me through what I could have done different.

Luckily each fall was at a low speed as I couldn’t get out of first gear due to the steepness of the hills but none of it was a pretty site.

We finally came across a shrine on the side of the road with water coming out of plastic pipes in the side of the mountain.  As we were resting, a truck pulled up and Milton asked if we were on the right path to Alamos.  One person jumped out to fill up some water jugs while the others tried to help us, drew us a map, and assured us that the roads got better.

At the Shrine.

At the Shrine..

People we met at the shrine who gave us directions. The guy in red is named Daniel and is a kindergarten teacher. Again we've met the nicest people here in Mexico.

People we met at the shrine who gave us directions. The guy in red is named Daniel and is a kindergarten teacher. Again we’ve met the nicest people here in Mexico.

Come to find out they didn’t get better for a long, long time.  But, as they left, I felt better with their assurance we were going the right way and road improvement.

Found out that the roads were not improving at all and that we still we not anywhere near the top of the mountain.  At times, after I would wreck on a particularly challenging area, I just would start walking up the hill, exhausted and sure I could go no further.

About three or four times, Milton rode my bike over a few of the more technical areas but as soon as he got the bike past, he would have me get back on the “horse” and talk me through the next part.  All the while, through my communicator, he’d remind me of what I learned in my off-road class; stay on the throttle when going uphill to keep my momentum up, clutch control, look where I want to go, not where I don’t want to go, soft hands, set myself up for the hairpin turn, take the outside line and power up the hill,  let my bike do what it was designed to do and don’t fight it, and at times, most importantly, breathe.  At times, I rode over some really technical stuff and was so amazed at my ability and then I’d crash and get discouraged. But since there was only one way off that fricking mountain, I had to keep going.

He would also be my lookout in the front and let me know when other vehicles were coming on the road.  Sometimes we had enough room to pull over, sometimes we had to keep riding so we’d move as far over as we could. He’d ask me what I see up ahead to get me used to scanning the road to look for signs of dust which would mean another vehicle was either coming towards us or was in front of us.  At one point, as it was getting closer to the time when we’d rather be off the road, we passed a pickup with about three men in the back, one was wearing a mask, and another with an automatic weapon.  They did not look friendly but I waved anyways and was glad when they paid little attention to us and kept going in the opposite direction.

We finally reached the point where we were going down more than we were going up and I was riding well again and after a particularly long stretch of downhill, I noticed that I did not have any rear brakes.  Now I wasn’t using much brake at all, mainly just keeping it in first and rolling through but I did need my brake occasionally so we stopped and noticed that in one of my crashes that my rear brake lever had gotten bent. We straightened it out and continued on our way.

It was beginning to turn dusk, we still were going uphill so I knew we were still far from Alamos so we began looking for a safe area to camp for the night.  As we were on the side of a mountain there weren’t really any options but the one area that was a possibility was the place Milton found the mask so we decided that probably wasn’t a safe place to stop for the night.  We finally came to some fence posts so I knew we were getting closer to homes and villages and we found an area with a couple farms where one family said we could camp for the night.  Only downfall there was there was no ice for my foot and they had a number of large dogs and we all had an image of the dogs spraying out tents all night so we motored on.  The next town looked almost deserted and we saw nothing like a hotel or even a restaurant to eat at, so we kept going.  By now, the down hill was way more frequent than the uphill but the dusk was creating shadows that made all the rocks and ruts look larger than they were. Again Milton stayed on the communicator telling me which line to take, that the shadows made things appear larger than they were and that we picked the bikes we did cause of the nice big front tires and how it would just roll over stuff if I let it.  It was easy going and I felt my confidence return, and then we hit some sand.  In the dark,  in the sand, I had a hard time finding the tire tracks to ride in and a couple of times I got into the deeper areas and wiped out.  Again I was not hurt but frustrated.

One of my final crashes of the night.

One of my final crashes of the night.

We finally found a small town were we were able to get fuel. My odometer said we rode 97 miles that day.  We had been on the road since about 8:30 in the morning and it now was about 9pm and had only covered 97 miles but they were really hard miles.  I was so relieved when the gas station attendant said that Alamos was only another 10 minutes away and about 15 kilometers before Alamos we finally hit pavement.  At the very beginning of this journey, I realized how much I have missed by living my life on the pavement but this time, I have never been so happy to hit pavement in my life.

Hot dogs, Mexican style, for dinner.

Hot dogs, Mexican style, for dinner.

Exhausted and filthy but grateful to be done with the day's ride.

Exhausted and filthy but grateful to be done with the day’s ride.

First week in Mexico

Morning in the courtyard at the Hotel Los Arcos

Morning in the courtyard at the Hotel Los Arcos

Day 2 in Mexico: After waking up, we wandered a block away to get Dennis and we all had a wonderful breakfast at the Hotel Los Arcos. Our host Tom and his staff took great care of us and made sure we had everything we needed during our stay there.  This is a place I would definitely want to return to and there are local hot springs that I want to hit when we come back. We got a late start due to some bike maintenance in the backyard area of the hotel and due to our time of departure, Tom recommended, that we head straight to Hermosillo where, at the time, our destination was the coast.  Originally, we had mapped out a less direct route to the coast (Southeast then West) which would take us on secondary and “other” roads as they are referred to on the map but Tom didn’t feel comfortable with us going that direction with our later start time. Unfortunately he doesn’t know my husband and how when he gets a idea in his head it doesn’t change so easily. We headed out East and again the surroundings were beautiful. Milton kept saying over and over how it was January and we were on motorcycles in t-shirts in Mexico. What an amazing life!!

Church at town square where we stopped to get pesos

Church at town square where we stopped to get pesos

We found a wonderful little town with a bank so Dennis could get some pesos and we found a little place to eat lunch at, went to a market for some fruit, and then rode until dusk where we found a hotel in Mazatan.  The room cost us about $19.00 US dollars and we probably overpaid since it did not come with hot water but it did come with plenty of spiders so we slept in our sleeping bags on top of the bed and Dennis pitched his tent outside.  It  did have a courtyard behind a wall where the bikes could be parked out of site so that was kind of a plus.  From the front of the building it looked like it was abandoned so we drove by it a couple times thinking it couldn’t be the hotel that the woman told us about, lo and behold, it was exactly where she was talking about. Total miles for the day was less than 100.  We are in no hurry and it’s nice.

Day 3 in Mexico: After a not so restful night, we packed our bikes and stopped down the road to cook muesli on one of the little turnoffs we found. After breakfast we continued east and the sun was so bright I had a hard time seeing which made riding a little challenging, especially when trucks were coming by at a speed much quicker than we were riding.  Fortunately the trucks didn’t come that often.  At about 11am we rode into this little town named Soyopa in Sonora.  Every town we rode through people would wave at us and dogs would chase us, me especially, because I had Jackie on my bike. Most of the towns have a little town center that seems to be centered around a church and I love that so much color is used on the buildings.  None of the blah neutral colors that we often use in the states for our buildings but colors like orange like a sunrise or red like a sunset.  As we drove through the town we passed a group of people that consisted of a couple of police officers and some others who looked important, and as we were getting ready to leave the town we pulled over to ask directions from one of the men and soon after we had the police there and then a man who introduced himself as Juan Pedro asked me where we were headed.  He was carrying a stack of something in his hand and at first I thought he might be trying to sell them, next thing I knew this important looking man came up to me and said Buena Tardes to me, shook my hand, and then went to talk with Juan Pedro and Milton.  Come to find out the important looking man was the town mayor and Juan Pedro worked for him and after a fishing discussion with my husband they offered to show us how to get to the river just outside of town.

We followed them in their car, made one quick stop as the police had gone to get us water, and continued on toward the river.  Along the way, I was directly behind the car with the mayor and they were going at quite a quick pace and before I knew it I came across a cattle guard with the metal grate slats running parallel to my tires with the distance between the slats wider than my tires and somehow I made it across without even my thought.  Milton was behind me and later told me how much it scared him to watch me ride over it at 30+ MPH.  Not sure how I made it, probably pure luck.  The river was beautiful, it had an old school playground.  It also had a large covered area for community events.  Juan Pedro told us that the mayor wanted us to know that we were his guests and that we were invited to stay and camp at the river, he’d have the Chief of Police come by during the night if we wanted to stay but that if we wanted to leave if we had any trouble at all to tell people that we were his guests and even took pictures with us and said we could show the picture as proof of it.  He kept emphasizing that we were safe there, that we would have no problems there or in the surrounding areas.  Found out later that the mayor was also the mayor of six other towns, so we had connections all over the area.  It was amazing how helpful and friendly they all were.  So after only traveling about 50 miles that day we decided that we would stay the night in Soyopa.  Later that day they had a little party under the gazebo area and fed us, there was music and some dancing.  I had the cutest group of girls come us and attempt to talk with me but since my Spanish is so limited, they just laughed at me but they all did want to take pictures with me.  The oldest was Paulina, then there was Sofia, Alex, and Angie.  Paulina was the main spokesperson and she kept hitting herself on the forehead and laughing when she was trying to communicate with me.  The music played until about 9pm and then I heard the police ride by once on a quad and both Milton and Dennis saw them go by later in the night with their lights on, probably just letting us know it was them.

Day 4: In the morning, the Chief of Police and one other officer came by again to check on us, made sure we slept well and offered to escort us to the next town even.  We watched some men haul a truck across the river on a barge that they pulled across with a rubber type rope.  I absolutely fell in love with the town of Soyopa. Such friendly and warm people and they want us to tell people to come visit and that it is safe. Another place that I will definitely return too.

Soyopa morning

Soyopa morning

When we left we headed towards San Antonia.  This was a rocky dirt road all of the way with lots of turns and more cattle guard crossing.  Got to use a lot of the techniques I learned in my off-roads course so huge thanks to Greg and Brett at Puget Sound Safety Off-Road, cause I didn’t crash once.

The day was hot we had little water so we stopped in San Antonio for water and more pictures then continued in a south easterly direction headed towards some waterfall in one of the national parks.

water break on a dusty road

Water break on a dusty road

The roads were good with lots of twists and we climbed higher and higher.  The foliage changed a few times with the elevation changes and views were spectacular.  We finally came across a tiny village where a family invited us into their home for lunch and fed us deer tacos that he actually hunted himself and Dennis had me running down the street so a local cowboy could pretend to lasso me while he attempted to catch it on video. (Watch out Tacoma, because when Dennis returns he’ll really know how to operate that iPhone and none of you will be safe from his shenanigans either).  For the night we, got a clean little room in a hotel called the El Dorado, and yes it has hot water, but unfortunately the handles are switched so Dennis didn’t know it and had to take a cold shower again.  I was able to figure it out tho and the hot water was wonderful and a long day on the road.  Total miles ridden today was ???

 

 

Stepping Off the Pavement (it’s a long one)

I am sure that many people think that I am crazy for quitting my job to join my husband on this adventure of riding our motorcycles to South America. To be honest, that thought has crossed my mind many times also. I had finally reached a place in my life where in many ways I was content. I had great friends around me, financially we were doing better than we had ever done before and the area that I struggled with the most revolved around work and I had finally reached a place where I felt like I had found my perfect job.

Since 2003, I have been nursing in the hospital setting and ever since I was a nursing student I knew I wanted to become a wound care nurse. After much hard work, I became a Certified Wound and Ostomy Care Nurse and had a job that allowed me the opportunity to advance, with a great team to help support me, and a wonderful nurse manager. Like I said, I had found my perfect job. But even with the perfect job, I was still physically and emotionally exhausted much of the time and often left work frustrated from trying to do a good job in an environment where we were often short staffed. I had always told myself that when I got hospital experience under my belt I’d branch out into the community based setting where I hoped I could slow down a little and not only provide physical care but provide more emotional care also. But, I have to be honest here and admit that community nursing does not pay as well as hospital based nursing and I got to a place in my life where I was chasing the money.

At first I was chasing the money so we could get caught up with bills. Then I was chasing the money so we could pay off all of our debt. Then I was chasing the money so we could live on one income as my husband changed careers and pursued a dream to get his real estate license. Then I was chasing the money so he could build his real estate business. After a while we found ourselves almost completely debt free, minus a really small mortgage, and a few paid for properties, and still chasing the money. We found ourselves working long hours, exhausted; and me, still with this vague feeling of discontent. Our original “why” for the hours and way we worked no longer applied to us. Our original why, simply put, was to be debt free and we were so close to that goal that instead of pushing harder to get to the finish line, I found myself making choices that were slowing the process down rather than speeding it up.

Our “why” was to be debt free so we could live a life where we could consciously choose where and how to spend our time and money rather than have some debt owed to the bank or credit card company be the decider of how many hours we worked, whether I picked up an extra shift at the hospital, or how the money was spent after we got paid. We had lived like that for years and it caused a significant amount of stress in our lives, me especially. So together, we decided we’d do whatever was necessary to make sure we didn’t ever have to live that way again and that became our focus. Pay things off, buy with cash only, and save, save, save. In the meantime, life was passing by and we watched our friends take cruises, go on vacations to warm sunny places every winter, buy bigger houses, brand new cars, or just give in and file bankruptcy. All the while we saved our money, kept downsizing in house, and drove what we had until it broke down enough times that it wasn’t worth fixing anymore and then replaced it with another used vehicle. The Dave Ramsey mantra “Live like no one else, so later you can live like no one else” became our mantra.

After some reevaluation of what we both wanted, we realized that our “why” really had not changed entirely and that we were much closer to our goal than we realized. Our ”why”, we discovered was even simpler than just being debt free; it was freedom, not just with our money but with our time. The vehicle we had been using to get there was money and now the only thing that needed to change, or add to the equation, was another vehicle, and that vehicle just happened to be sitting in our garage, in the form of motorcycles.

Ever since I started to ride my own bike, I’ve experienced pure freedom when riding. For the girl who grew up lot of “shouldn’t messages”, the feelings I experience when riding eventually began to drown out those messages until I could no longer hear them, or they at least become reduced to a dull roar. Within a month after I got my first motorcycle (a BMW R1150R), I rode from the Tacoma Washington area to Hot Springs Montana for a weekend recovery based event. On the way over, I rode with a group that primarily consisted of Harley riders because I knew they’d go slow enough for me to feel comfortable. My husband, riding a BMW K1200 RS, stayed back to wait for a straggler who rode a FJR and I knew how they liked to ride, especially on the twisties, which I definitely didn’t feel ready to take at a high rate of speed but I also didn’t trust my sense of competitiveness to not attempt it anyways.

With the slower group, the ride over was relatively uneventful minus one of the bikes breaking down, but the ride back tested my abilities, courage and had a lot of twisties. I rode through torrential rains, snow, limited visibility, and went over passes that I definitely did not want to be riding on. And, as if the weather conditions weren’t bad enough, there were animals crossing the road at the most inopportune times. Also, along that route home (highway 20) there were moments and stretches of road that took me to places that I had never been before, experiencing it in a way that I never in my wildest dreams could have imagined. When I was home safe, I felt a sense of empowerment and freedom that I had never experienced before. It was the first of many cracks in the pavement of the nice safe road of life that I found myself.

For a while after that trip, I tried to avoid riding alone but when I did find myself alone, I carefully planned my route to include only back and side roads and only in areas that I was familiar with. Things I’d take into consideration consisted of time of day, was it close to rush hour or close to getting dark, were there any hills to climb and if so, was there a possibility I’d have to stop on the hill, what was the parking upon arrival, would there be other bikes that I would have to park around or near, or would there be enough room for me to park away from the other bikes, could I pull in to park or would I have to back my bike in. I know it sounds crazy now, but, as a new rider, these thoughts went through my head every time I considered pulling my bike out of the garage.

Fast forward to the next summer, we did our Montana trip again and I found my confidence had increased significantly during the past year and even more during the trip itself. I don’t remember what the riding conditions were for that trip but not long after arriving home, I decided that I was going to spend the weekend with some friends at a women’s only recovery camping event. I rarely attended women’s only events but a couple of my girlfriends rode and were going to ride there and I wanted so much to be part of. Unfortunately, I had to work and wouldn’t get off in time to ride with them, but with the knowledge that I’d get to return back to Tacoma with them, I decided to go.

That was the first time that I rode to an event where I had to take enough stuff for a weekend trip by myself. I packed up my bike and carried everything with me that I needed. No one threw my bag in their car and took it for me and there was no chase car to make sure I didn’t have any trouble along the way. I left in the evening after I got off work, found my way there following written directions, didn’t arrive until after dark, and found a place to park my bike. I felt self-sufficient, independent, and extremely proud of myself. It was at this event, during the Saturday night main speaker meeting, that I heard this woman Jesse talk about finding that “thing” that makes your hair blow back and then doing it. I don’t remember anything else she said but that phrase stuck with me and in that moment I knew for me that “thing” is riding. The message came at just the right time for me and a seed was planted that over the next eight years would continue to grow.

Now any kind of bike grabs my attention but what makes me sit up and take notice and ignites that spark inside for adventure is not those leather clad Harley riders who look like they’re exhausted riding across town, but those riders on the dual sport fully loaded bikes wearing the Aerostich suit that make me wonder where they’ve been and what they’ve seen. Over the past few years, I’ve felt drawn further and further down this path of adventure and wanting to ride longer and farther so in 2013, I upgraded to a bike made more for long distance touring, a BMW R1200RT. Although I loved my R1150R, it had no faring, only a sport windshield (which I was unwilling to change because I loved the look) and I was windbeat and exhausted halfway through the day. After my first short weekend trip on the RT, I thought I had the bike of my dreams. No longer was I windbeat, cold, or as exhausted at the end of the day, I was in heaven.

Our vacations stretched out longer and were usually spent traveling on our bikes for as long as we could comfortable leave work for. With no kids at home any longer we began talking about goals and dreams and how we wanted to spend our time and money. It was then that my husband brought up the promise that he made his mom to spread her ashes in Mexico and how he had always wanted to ride to Tierra del Fuego and so began the plan.

As we began to make plans to take this journey to Tierra del Fuego, we began to become even more self-contained on our bikes and to ride fully loaded from sunrise to long after sunset before we finally would stop to pitch our tent. During the day, our rest stops would consist of a quick pit-stop for refueling of both bike and body and then we’d be riding again. Sometimes I wouldn’t even bother to take my helmet off because each stop would just mean less time riding and less distance covered. Always during this time those thoughts of work and home responsibilities remained attempting to drown out that the feeling of freedom and being in the moment.

When we finally made the commitment that we were going to turn this dream of ours into a reality, we picked the date March 1, 2017 and posted it on a huge poster board sized paper stuck on our living room wall and started making notes on it of what we thought we’d need. We also began to search out and put people in our lives that would help build our belief system. Our first stop was at the local BMW shop, South Sound Motorcycles based in the Tacoma Washington area where we were told about Horizons Unlimited (HU). After a quick internet search, we knew that we needed to meet some of those people involved with HU so we registered for the closest travelers meeting we could find, which was August, 2015 in Nakusp, Canada. In the meantime, I searched for a local off-road riding class I could take, we continued gathering up supplies and took short motorcycle camping trips to test out our gear.

Poster that hung in our living room

Poster that hung in our living room

Break time at the PSSOR class, exhausted but happy

Break time at the Puget Sound Safety Off-Road (PSSOR) class, exhausted but happy

Had so much fun at the first class, I took the PSSOR class again.

Had so much fun at the first class, I took the PSSOR class again.

Nakusp, Canada Horizon's Unlimited Traveler's Meeting

Nakusp, Canada Horizon’s Unlimited Traveler’s Meeting

We originally had planned to pay off our mortgage completely, rent the house out and use that income along with money from other rentals to fund our trip. In less than a week of being home, we realized that we didn’t have to wait; we just had to make one final tweak in our plan and that final tweak was to sell our Tacoma home and with that one move we could fully fund our trip, make improvements to our property in California, and still have a little nest egg waiting for us when we got back.

It took that weekend at the HU travelers meeting for us to come to the realization that we had worked this hard and long so we could be exactly where we are today; the ability to be debt free, living in a paid for piece of property with some rental income to support us. So we took the plunge and put our house on the market. In two weeks we had a full-price offer and in a little over a month, we were packed up and headed to California.

Couldn’t we both have worked a little longer to save up more money? Of course we could have. Shouldn’t we both have worked a little longer to save up more money? Maybe, but then again, maybe those shouldn’t messages (you know the ones I am talking about that say you shouldn’t do that, it’s not practical; you shouldn’t do that, it’s not responsible; and the one that stops more people in their tracks, you shouldn’t do that cause it’s not safe) would have continued to win out and we never would have stepped off the ledge and just done it.

So as a final word of warning, be very careful if you ever decide to attend a Horizon’s Unlimited Traveler’s Meeting, because you just might find yourself with a for sale sign on your front lawn.

House for sale

First stop on our Journey-A Return Home

Humboldt County Sign
The beginning of our journey involves a return home for both Milton and I. Although we have both spent the past 10 years in the Tacoma, Washington area and we consider it home in many ways; in our hearts, home for us is, and always will be, Humboldt County in Northern California. Milton had family ties to the southern Humboldt area and my family has ties to northern part of the county. For those unfamiliar with Humboldt County, it is a rural county approximately 200 miles north of San Francisco, California along the Pacific Coast. We are fortunate to have beautiful rugged coastlines and lush green awe-inspiring redwood forests right in our own back yard. For a long time, while in Washington, my favorite saying was ”Humboldt was a great place to be from but I wouldn’t want to live there”. But after only a few years on living in Washington it was brought to my attention that the area was still a huge part of me.

A few years into our transition to a more urban area, our friend Jewel came up to visit and I remember her walking out into our backyard, laughing and she said, “You can take the girl out of Humboldt but you can’t take Humboldt out of the girl” and I have found this to be so true. As much as I loved Tacoma and loved, loved, loved the wonderful amazing people that I met (they definitely left their footprints on my heart); there is something about home that just can’t be replaced by a geographical relocation.

I was born and raised in Humboldt and Milton moved to Southern Humboldt as a young boy with his parents in the early 70’s. The area is diverse, beautiful, and rugged with a strong alternative vibe to the entire county. Besides the redwood forests and rocky ocean coastlines, we have an abundance of organic food markets, and music that just makes you want to get up and dance. Maybe it’s the community radio stations here like KMUD that play a wide mixture of music but seems heavily leaning toward folk, blues, bluegrass, and reggae all of which I love, or maybe it’s just the number of concerts and festivals that we have here that seem to be in abundance for such a rural area. And speaking of festivals, Humboldt is also home of Reggae of the River (www.ReggaeOnTheRiver.com) which has been going on since 1983 and is a huge three day reggae music festival just 15 miles from where we live. And then there is the local music and arts scene which, for such a small area, it’s packed with stuff to do from the local musicians playing at restaurants to the community benefit events which always seems to be centered around arts, music, and dancing.

If you’re a person with even a little bit of free spirit in your soul then Humboldt is definitely a place you’ll want to experience. It has the ability to weave its way into your heart and soul that it becomes a part of who you are and becomes the standard by which you judge every other place. Life is a slower pace in Humboldt. And in southern Humboldt, where a one room cabin will be home until we leave on our journey, well………it’s more than just a little bit alternative.

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